Anger Management

Before I start this post, I want to give a very big Shout out to those that usually have anger issues..Mehn, una dey try ooo...*double twale* for real, you guys deserve awards because getting angry is one thing and ability to control it is another thing. Anger is one thing that is definitely in every living thing. If you tell me you don't get angry or at least "vex" then I will tell you to go back to God and complete your making probably you ran off before he could finish. lol. One thing I have noticed about anger is that it can't boil water. No matter how angry you are or how hot your temper is, you will only end up getting yourself and others around you injured. I totally understand the fact that some people can be very annoying but the fact that you can't give birth to them exactly the way they were when you killed them in your angry state should at least make you calm down small. let me give you this small gist about this particular boo of mine (not my boyfriend oo..I have many boos and baes..lol)

      Shongbe, as he is called by me and some other special people, is someone that is more than a friend to me. He is in CU and he is studying architecture, currently in 300 level. But one thing I've noticed about Shongbe which he confirmed is that he can vex eh. If Shongbe start his crase here eh, just give him space because anything can happen at anytime and to anybody. One of his anger stories that he shared with me was an incident that happened to him when he was in SS2. According to him, he got really angry with his close friend for badmouthing his ex and also experimenting "Biology" with her behind close doors (you all know the part of "Biology" I'm talking about so don't give me that look). He punched walls and doors. but come to think of it, he was hurting himself doing all that punching. Mehn, I was surprised when he told me oo...Personally, I don't easily get angry and when I get angry, just tickle me and I will laugh and forget everything but punching walls and buildings, I mean, doors?? Haba!! This guy was really angry and could not just forget about it but he went further to beat up his friend and even tampered with his exam (hmm, would have loved to see that fight tho so sad it wasn't recorded). eh ehn, as I was writing before I brought in Shongbe's story, anger can really make someone do crazy and stupid things but come to think of it, the popularity rate of the cause of anger is always about females. GIRLS WHY!!!!!!! I was shocked when I saw it. If you are a girl reading this, *in Omawumi's voice* "Stop!!! Wait a minute.....Warn yourself" Why are you girls always the cause of stimulated anger in guys?? No, on a more serious note, I have seen where a guy old enough to be old is raking because his girlfriend is not picking his calls, or did not return his numerous calls or isn't home on time or spends too much money on weaves and makes-ups or run off with his atm card or sha do one crazy thing that can make a guy go red with anger. Please I beg all girls out there, please be considerate, warn yourselves. It's not all the time guys like listening to nags abeg. But anyways you guys too sef sha carry una own for una body...Ah...Kiloshele...You people should know that we are girls and they don't care (me I care sha) if you don't eat for a whole year, just buy them the latest weave and they are happy. lol.
        Please nobody should attack me because of this post ooo...abeg....I can't fight. But on a very serious and critical note, anger can kill if it can't be controlled. People who can't control their anger are the ones that need anger management. There are many reasons apart from females that could heat up anger in an individual and if not controlled can lead to many complicated issues. We are humans, I totally get, and we are bound to get angry but getting angry to the point where you reach your "boiling point" is not something you shouldn't be proud of. Let me shock you, in my own opinion, people that can't control their anger need Spiritual help. They need to adjust some loose nuts in their system. The top, sorry, bottom line of all this is that anger is a disease  and can be treated by only one Doctor, God. Yes! He is the only one that can turn that anger into joy unspeakable. I don't like being around people that can't control their anger before they will pour me steaming acid thinking it's hot water. Please let's get it right!! Anger doesn't increase your popularity rate rather its diminish your personality. Let Love abound in our hearts and try to be at peace with all men........and women.
        If you feel you want to know more about anger and how to control it, just ping me on twitter @norahjoyanih or send a mail to thewriterscorner@yahoo.com... Hope to bring another post your way before the day ends but till then, I remain humble.....*kisses*